Saturday, June 21, 2014

Joycelynn Chen, 40 years old, 2 kids

That's her.

He takes selfies of his daily life to send to her. He calls or messages her every other day.
She sends him care packages when he works late. God knows what kind of pictures she sends him.
I have found those "I feel so guilty but I don't want to give you up despite the fact that you are married" kind of messages.

They fucking deserve each other.

I hope I never get to meet her. I cannot guarantee that I won't throw my shoe at her.

I asked him if she was pretty. he said yes. I want to stab him.

If you know any Joycelynn Chen that is 40, and has two kids - tell her she is a fucking cunt. I guess she needs to be thankful I don't have her picture. It will be published with the word 'whore' across her forehead.
Thank you.

Monday, June 16, 2014

Healing

I've finally calmed down enough to make another post.

Melvin has spent the past week trying to make things right. We went to a marriage counselor (Dr Jessica Leong) who was so good, she pinpointed the problem in half an hour. She says we just need another two sessions with her and told us not to waste anymore money on counselors.

I guess she's right. I've closed off from him the past year. I mean, we share the mundane stuff, but that's about it. And it's because I've been so drained when I come back from school. She also tells me my disappointment in him (in several areas) is showing.. that pushes him away.

She also has her work cut out for his single session with her. I think he has quite a number of issues that needs to be worked through. We haven't made that second appointment yet, but we definitely will see her either next week or the week after.

We went to the lawyers to get a post nuptial agreement done up. It's in the works... but basically states that I get the house, the kids, and other things if I were to file a writ of divorce based on unreasonable behavior.

We are mending. slowly.