I suppose I should give everyone an update, though what a way to celebrate the upcoming CNY.

I was informed this morning that Gran has stage 4 cancer. She has 6 - 12 months left to live.
I'd type more, but am at a loss for words.

so yea.

It's almost V-day cum CNY..

Every year, I daydream about Melvin surprising me with a romantic night out.

And it never happens.. cos he doesn't ever put in effort to plan these things.

And when I tell him to 'surprise me' - well, I'm not, in the least.

Doesnt happen for Anniversaries. or Vday. Or any occasion.

Meh.